It is seven decades since they were gassed at Treblinka - I lost them
all.
I never knew them, yet I imagine their
beautifully gaunt faces and frightened tear-filled eyes.
They never had a chance to touch me, to
see me, to kiss me.
And, I cannot even
honor them by visiting their graves.
I was told,
“You have her blue eyes and dark brown hair”
That like me,
she rubbed her hands together in anticipation
They said she
was a balabuste and that she hated
injustice
Another
remarked she was a good friend, talented and faithful
I was never
likened to my mother, the woman that gave me life
I know I was
more like her – one of the murdered
generation
The woman I
never saw or knew, no proof, no photo to show
Taken away
from me, amongst others – not a trace of family
Friends talked
about their dear Grandmas, Savtas or Bubbies
They got
dolls, homemade sugar cookies or sucking candies
Enjoyed the
Sabbath day, weekend sleepovers and warm hugs
A love other
than their mother's, an unconditional understanding.
Bubbie? What
do you think of the granddaughter named for you?
Are you proud
of me today, raised without your influence in my life?
Are you
looking down from your heavenly abode and smiling?
Do you send me
blessings of approval and wishes for longevity?
Chava'le,
my Bubbie – the grandmother I never held, but always loved
For years I
wanted to just see your image, even a photo would do
But you and my
aunts were stripped and forced to march to the left,
Sent to
showers with soap to supposedly cleanse your dirty bodies.
Imagining your
last minutes in that final wretched chamber – inhaling death
Choking for
air - who perished first? You
Bubbie, or my three young aunts?
What worldly
goods would I give away to save your bodies and souls
Even for one
kiss, one long embrace, one moment in time to see your face.
Our editor, Chava Yelloz was born in a
displaced persons camp in Eschwege, Germany in 1946. Her mother, Fela,
z”l, (Faige Rochel) was a valiant
partisan fighter in the Polish pine forest and the sole survivor of the 7 children
born to Reb Leibish and Chava Kopytko, z”l. Chava's aunts were Leibe, Gelche
and Perle - her uncles were Srulek, Hershel and Moishele...may their memories,
along with the millions of others murdered in the Shoah, be a blessing to Klal Yisrael.
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